This is the REAL Reason You and Your Lover Think “Differently”
So here’s the thing that finally REALLY clicked for me today. The reason that all our conventional wisdom says, “women and men are fundamentally different from each other in the ways that they think and act” is because that loudest voice, the majority consciousness is still speaking from a heterosexual monogamous standpoint. When the majority of people are in heterosexual couples, thinking “my partner and I are so different from each other!” becomes “Men and Women are so different from each other!” But same sex couples also feel that they and their partner are different from each other. People in poly relationships know that a relationship with one person of a specific gender is NOT a relationship with ALL people of that gender. As human beings, we have a lot in common. More than we have differences. But indeed, there are so many differences. We are unique. We speak, learn, … Read More